struggle....people are not happy because they always be struggle with themself.
should i have a rest or work very hard?should i have some food or not?i know i d better do not do that thing but i still want to do.
life is short , people waste many time on hesitate，forget the enjoyment.
some days before, i think out a way .
when you are in some contradiction, do not know what should do, you can talk with the future yourself. for example , i do not want to study one hour everyday, i feel better to use this hour to sleep. well , i ask the 33-year-old Guo Liang whats better, she will say, if you have enough sleep, you 'd better use the one hour to learn something . well, so i will obey her.
i have tried once on my friend, when she do not know if she should marry her boy friend, i ask her if she will regret after ten years, if the now profit is such important in her whole life. she said no.and she didn't marry the guy finally.i believe my question had do something.
when you have some ABCD options , and do not what should choice maybe you can ask if let the future me choose ,which answer she will choose?
smart people always obey themselves.
do not hesitate now, do not regret in the future.
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Not quite convincing.. It depends on how you imagine your future self... for example suppose I am confused between running one hour and studying one hour... here, if i imagine myself in good health in future then he will suggest me to study... and if I imagined myself in bad health in future then he will suggest me to run and keep healthy.. so eventually it is in your hand what you want to do.. your trick is only for convincing your self that you took the right decision when actually you do what you want..
ReplyDeleteIf I am the Darshan ten years later, I know that study and exercise are both long run investment of time, important to my whole life. So I won’t give up any of them ,if I have less time I may do it every each day.
ReplyDeleteBut I too have periodical short plan, for e.g there is an important exam near, so I know for this short plan I will considerable cut some time on exercise. But for a ten years long after, I know no matter how important the exam is ,I won’t use all my time on it, I will still save some time on exercise, I won’t cut all the exercise time.
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